Lisa Santoro


"Dear Lisa"
A Dating Violence Prevention Program

 On July 29, 1994, her ex-boyfriend murdered Tom Santoro’s 18-year-old daughter, Lisa. He experienced one of life's hardest lessons. Since then,Tom has committed to helping to stop dating violence. 

He brings a Life lessons program to students, parents and teachers. What are the warning signs? How can you tell if your date or significant other is abusive? Can you detect abuse from outside a relationship? Can you intervene? How? What can law enforcement do? Tom relates the lessons he has learned, with hopes that Lisa's death will serve as a cautionary message for others. (45-60 minutes) 

Content: 

Tom speaks on dating violence awareness and education in his program called "Dear Lisa." "Dear Lisa" tells the story of what happened to Lisa Santoro and is designed to encourage students to recognize patterns of abuse, escalation and incidents in dangerous relationships. Tom facilitates a discussion about domestic and dating violence that allows students to share their thoughts and explore their perceptions of the issue.  He provides a clear explanation about the different forms of abuse that can take place between dating couples and helps to bring this topic out of the shadows to elevate awareness. 

Audience: High School and College Students

To have the Dating Violence Prevention Program presented for your school or organization, and for information on a sliding scale fee, please contact: 

Tom Santoro (sntoro358@ameritech.net)
102 Santa Fe Lane
Willow Springs, IL 60480

Phone:  (708) 467-0755
Fax:  (708) 467-0756 


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